Dress code dilemma?
After an assembly for female students that took place Friday afternoon in DLHS’s gymnasium turned into a social media slash “news-worthy” nightmare, it left the two teachers caught in the middle of all this angst, quite speechless.
But Ryan Hanson [Mr. Hanson], principal at DLHS, thought he was protecting his students by putting their best interests first when he told the two teachers to speak with all high school, female students to reinforce their high school’s dress code policy regarding “yoga pants, leggings and/or tights.” (taken from DLHS’s Policy handbook under ‘personal appearance p.13-14, also see DLHS’s website.)
“Unfortunately,” said Hanson, “it blew up into an irrefutable controversy - bigger than the DLHS and Devils Lake community was ready for - when a Fargo media source [KVLY TV] caught wind of an ‘alleged tip’ from a source from a whistleblower hotline about the female dress code policy supposedly changing at DLHS, and it became a national story on Monday.”
“The media has perpetuated something that really isn’t an issue,” stated Hanson.
But soon television news reporters and social media networks were buzzing about yoga pants - over alleged rumors [from the Friday dress code assembly] claiming the two DLHS teachers [Mrs. Kadrmas and Mrs. Bodina] had compared students to prostitutes. All of which the Journal confirmed to be hearsay Wednesday afternoon after speaking with both Phyllis Kadrmas, senior English teacher at DLHS, Principal Hanson and several DLHS students.
Kadrmas said she showed the girls a clip of a movie where a woman was dressed skimpy and because of that was treated badly by sales people. But when the woman in the movie went back to the same store in a sophisticated outfit the same sales associates were at her beckon call. A total turnaround because her appearance was then perceived as more respectful or tasteful to others.
“It was a stressful thing and I’ve taught a long time and been through a lot of battles,” said Kadrmas, on the rumors and sensationalized clothing controversy. “We just wanted a visual example of the way you dress is - how people perceive you.”
“The amount of energy and effort that’s placed on this could have been used so much more positively,” said Kadrmas. “There’s so many good causes and we’re stuck on yoga pants? Really?”
Superintendent Scott Privratsky said “First of all it’s about trying to get the correct information out to people.”
The dress code policy never did change, Privratsky confirmed with the Journal Wednesday. “They just have to be appropriately covered.” He compared this outcry from the yoga pants incident to the mid-1990’s, explaining that back at that time, there were some issues with male students “sagging” down their jeans lower than usual, to show the backside of their boxer shorts.
He said fashion fads come and go but one thing that is a constant is the importance of the well being and protection of students, also reiterated by Principal Hanson.
“We have received several phone calls and several emails thanking us for addressing the appropriate dress attire for students,” added Superintendent Privratsky. He said parents, community members and outside school districts have all contributed to this “aftermath of praise.”
“I had one mother tell me that every school district should be talking about the appropriate way to dress,” said Privratsky.
Principal Hanson also added that DLHS’s policies are actually sought after. A principal in Tacoma, Washington even called Hanson recently to request the rights to copy DLHS’s policies and procedures, dress code included.
“Any decision we make, no matter how it’s perceived, is always thinking of the students first,” declared Hanson.
“In the big scheme of things I think this is going to end up being a positive, in the long-run,” said Hanson. “It’s still a great school.”